Cheating on the Internet. Will it become "real"
If you are suspicious that your spouse or partner is cheating
on the Internet, you probably are asking yourself, will it become
real cheating later? Can my relationship be threatened
by a cyber-relationship?
There are several ways to cheat on the Internet and there are several
degrees of cheating on the Internet as well. I will detail them
How do they cheat on the Internet?
Cheating on the Internet implies getting in contact with another
person or persons through different methods, which are mainly websites
or dedicated software made especially for this purpose.
It is important to mention that Internet is particularly successful
in putting people in contact as it provides a way to interact with
less inhibition and more caution when knowing somebody else than
the real life.
The initial contact will be usually made by chat or email, which
immediately will evolve into a chat conversation too. Once in communication
through one of the hundreds of chat software programs available,
any kind of information can be exchanged between the two persons
like text, images, sound and even live video.
The places where people can meet on the Internet are thousands,
and they are can be classified into the following categories:
1. Chat rooms. (Windows Live and Yahoo are the most used but there
are thousands more).
2. Friend networks. (Facebook, MySpace and Orkut are very popular, again there
are many more).
3. Direct contact through chat profiles. (Looking through the profiles
of Yahoo members)
4. Sites to match couples. (Perfectmatch, match, etc)
5. Relationship sites. (Passion, Adult Friend Finder, etc)
After the initial contact made through any of these resources,
people eventually will start chatting. In fact, most of the times
the initial contact will be made only to exchange mail or chat addresses.
When people start getting acquainted with the other person through
those chat conversations, they will start to share their problems,
likes and dislikes, getting an enormous amount of sympathy from
the other person.
This happens naturally because in our fast world, we have no time
to calmly talk with our partners during days, but also because this
kind of communication gives us unparallel confidence to speak freely
as there is no real contact with the other person. He/she is the
ideal receptor letting us to say whatever we want, without questioning
it and usually agreeing our point of view.
That sympathy will turn into affection afterwards and if the relationship
last for sometime, sooner or later one of the persons will ask the
other to meet somewhere to know each other. During this process,
a photograph exchange is common and if both have web cameras, they
probably will see live images from each other.
A chat conversation is the ideal media to forge intense human relationships
(of any kind) and therefore an ideal platform for cheating.
The intensity of the relationships created is such that I have knowledge
of people going directly to bed on their first real
It is important to understand that not everyone who chats or even
meet in real life is a cheater. Internet is a great and wonderful
resource and we all are responsible on how we use it.
For some people, having their couples such strong feelings towards
other persons is enough to think that they are being cheated even
though sex is not involved. Others do not care if their couples
have cyber-friends as long as they do not know each other.
Finally, there is another set of people, especially those who live
in different towns, which will practice cyber-sex, as natural outcome
of what I have been describing above. Cyber-sex usually evolves
into phone sex, but the chances of cheating are less probable as
they need to travel to meet each other. I dont need to mention,
but I will, that as you probably know, there is a lot of people
who actually travel to meet each other as result of first meeting
on the Internet.
Even more, experienced cheaters will contact people in advance in
those places where they know that will be traveling soon.
Regardless of the sophistication, there are several ways to catch
her if she is having a cyber-affair. The most sure-fire way is to
directly monitor her computer.
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